There is a quote from Jim Rhon that says: ‘Time is worth more than money. You can always get more money, but you can’t get more time. ‘ This phrase should be kept by all parents in a place in their home to remember it, to know that time with family and children cannot be paid for with money, it is irreplaceable.Time is the most important thing in our life.
While it is true that we must work to get money because this society forces us to do so in order to have a quality of life. You need money to be able to pay bills, to have a decent home, to feed ourselves , to buy clothes … You need money for everything, but money should not be the one who controls us and not the one that manages the happiness of our hearts based on whether you have more or less money in the bank account.
If you have enough money to live well, why do you want more? Your children do not need a pension plan since they are 3 years old, your children need to spend time with you. It is not known what adversities there will be in the future, money comes and goes … But time just goes by. Your children need to feel close to you, be by your side and enjoy you. They do NOT need you to buy things from them just because you cannot be by their side, they do not need to have the best mobile or the best motorcycle. They must learn that love is not shown with money, or with material things. It shows day by day.
If you can meet the needs of your family and also save a little for the possible contingencies, focus the free time you have to enjoy as a family. Remember that the quality of time is more important than the quantity of it. If you have little time but you know how to take advantage of it so that your children feel close to you, so that they know that they are your priority… Then things will go well.
Family time is not paid for with money
In our society there are many parents who work long hours daily and almost every day of the week and you do not have to obsess about that. Because what matters as I have said in previous lines is not the amount of time you use, but the quality of time you give to your children. Create magical moments with your children and then, you will be taking care of their hearts.
Money will not buy time and your feeling of guilt in case you have it, should not be supplied with gifts to your children just so they can see how much you love them. No. Love is not measured with gifts, your children do not want them because even if it makes them momentarily happy, what they really need to be happy and develop emotionally stable is that you are with them, by their side. Emotional gifts are the ones that are really worth spending time together in the living room, playing games, walking in the park, going out for a drink together, sharing special moments …
The moments by your side will help your child to grow, to be happy, to be able to build a good concept of himself, to feel valuable and a priority … If you want to give something to your children, which are family experiences, you will not be wrong .
The value of time
Time DOES have great value, and not money. We give time to the people we love because it is the only thing that does not return. Time is a way of caring for the people we love the most, and when we reach a point in life, we realize that time should not be shared with just anyone … Time should be shared with those who really love it. they deserve, with those who really need it: our family.